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November: Never Chase Men Again


Hey loves and welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception. I wanted to jump into my new book for personal growth. This book is helping us to realize our worth. Which is super important in dating. People will take advantage of the lack of boundaries because they are benefiting from it.

The introduction and first chapter start with a bang. We get a hint of “the game” that men talk about all the time. Before I jump in, be sure to subscribe so you can get alerts when I post more on this book.

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Strong Boundaries vs. Game-Playing

A woman’s confidence is very superficial when it comes to telling her to have confidence, as the author discusses at the beginning of this chapter. Throughout the book, the author explores the importance of having confidence in every aspect of our lives. It is essential to have confidence in your morals in addition to your appearance. However, it is also important to realize that confidence doesn’t necessarily mean you have excellent judgment when picking partners, which makes it difficult for women to find the right partner.

What is the importance of boundaries you may ask?

The Games

” In otherwords, confidence does not necessarily translate into judiciousness when dealing with men. You can be as confident as Kanye West on Grammy night and still betaken for a ride by a man who possesses both confidence AND cleverness.” A lot of people will activley go after those who do not have boundaries because they will gain more with that person. Those are the poeple who like game and we don’t have time for that. Real men and women do not play games.


You are teaching someone how to treat you. Chase a guy and you’re showing him that you will always be there for him, regardless of how he treats you. 

“The technique of withdrawing communicates to a man that a woman values her dignity more than she does a man’s attention.” Men respect women who know they don’t need a man to get what they want out of life. How could you possibly want something easy?

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I will continue on the next post of how to get them to chase you. Be sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe.

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