Love never dies, it changes form
Breakups can be painful, and it’s natural to feel sad about losing someone you care about. It’s hard to keep in mind that the more devastating something feels. The more important it is to let go of what no longer serves you. But I promise: it will get better! Here are some tips I have learned over time on how to move on from a breakup:
There can never be another person who will love you like the one who broke your heart.
There can never be another person who will love you like the one who broke your heart.
It’s a sad truth, but it’s true nonetheless: no matter how much time goes by or how many people enter and exit your life. There will always be something missing from their affection for you. You’ll never find someone else who loves you in quite the same way as they did. Either because they were unique individuals or because they had different ways of expressing their feelings towards others (and thusly different ways of loving).
You learn more about yourself and what you want out of life during a breakup than any other time in your life.
If you’re going through a breakup, it can feel like everything is falling apart. But in reality, this is one of the best times in your life to grow and learn new things about yourself. You’ll gain an appreciation for what you do have and who loves you. And that’s something that will stay with you forever.
Here are some ways breakups help us grow:
- You learn more about yourself and what you want out of life during a breakup than any other time in your life.
- Breakups help build independence. Because when someone leaves us or doesn’t want us anymore, we have no choice but to stand on our own two feet again! This can be scary at first but ultimately gives us confidence in ourselves. As individuals who don’t need anyone else’s approval or support system (which isn’t always healthy anyway).
- Breakups also teach us how not everyone deserves our love. Sometimes we need distance from toxic relationships so we can start fresh without any baggage weighing down our souls/hearts/minds/etcetera ad infinitum et cetera infinity squared infinity cubed infinity squared plus one.*
Breakups are hard but it’s important to remember that ‘forever’ is a relative term.
Breakups are hard because they remind us that we have limited time on this earth, and that love is a powerful force. But it can’t last forever; we have to let go of the past and move on. We have to learn from our mistakes, keep moving forward, and find new ways to love ourselves in order to be able to love others again someday (if you want).
There is no perfect person, there is no perfect relationship, and sometimes the best things that come into our lives are unexpected.
But if you’re waiting for the perfect person to come along, or the perfect relationship, maybe you should stop waiting.
The best things in life are never easy to find. And they don’t always come when we think they will–or even when we want them to (I’m looking at you, college sweetheart). But if you can be patient and open-minded enough not only to appreciate what’s right in front of your face but also see past its flaws and imperfections, then maybe–just maybe–you’ll find something better than what was originally on offer.
Breakups are not the end of the world
Breakups are not the end of the world, they’re just a minor set back in life’s grand scheme of things.
We need to learn how to accept that breakups happen for a reason and move on with our lives without being affected by them.
We often forget to be grateful for all that we have at our disposal when things are going well. But adversity teaches us how important it is to appreciate all life has to offer, even when bad things happen.
It’s easy to take things for granted when they are going well. But adversity teaches us how important it is to appreciate all life has to offer, even when bad things happen.
I’ve learned that love never dies; it changes form and becomes something else entirely.
The most important thing about moving on from someone or something is accepting that it happened for a reason. Even if we don’t understand it right away or ever.
- Acceptance is the first step to healing.
- Don’t try to understand why it happened, just accept that it did.
- Don’t try to change the past, focus on the future.
- Don’t hold onto anger or resentment, it will only hurt you
It will take time, but you will find peace eventually
But don’t expect to be happy right away. You will have moments of sadness and frustration, but these will be balanced out by joy and gratitude for what you do have at your disposal. And this is a good thing: it means that your heart is still beating!
Don’t give up hope, even when things seem bleakest–because they won’t always be this way. Remember that love never dies; it just changes form as we grow older and wiser together with our partners in life (or maybe even solo).
Conclusion
Love is an amazing thing, but it’s not always easy. Breakups can be difficult to deal with, but they are also a necessary part of life. The important thing is not to let yourself get bogged down by negative emotions or thoughts. You have to remember that everything happens for a reason and there are no coincidences in life. Even if it doesn’t seem like it at the time!
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