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How to have confidence at the gym

How to have confidence at the gym

Going to the gym can be scary, especially if you’re just starting out. There are so many exercises and machines that you may not know how to use them or what they’re meant to do. You might also feel like everyone else in there is better than you or that they have more experience. But guess what? You don’t need to be better than anyone else; all you need is a little confidence! Here are some simple ways to boost your confidence at the gym:

Tell yourself that you are doing this for you, not for anyone else.

When you’re at the gym, focus on yourself and your own goals. Don’t compare yourself to others in the gym. Remember that you are doing this for you, not for anyone else. Focus on the progress you are making . Not the mistakes or setbacks that may occur along the way.

Focus on your progress, not your mistakes.

There’s nothing like a good old-fashioned pep talk to get you back on track.

  • Don’t beat yourself up over mistakes. It’s easy to feel bad about yourself when things go wrong, but it’s important to remember that making mistakes is part of the learning process and takes time! If you’re trying something new, there will be some bumps in the road along the way. It’s just part of learning something new.
  • Focus on your progress, not your mistakes. When it comes down to it, no one else cares how long it took you or how many times you had to try again before getting something right. What matters most is whether or not they see improvement over time (and they will).

Remind yourself that you are working out for yourself, not for others.

The gym can be a tough place to navigate if you’re not feeling confident. You’re surrounded by people who are more fit than you and have been working out for longer. Which can make it hard to feel like an equal. But as long as you’re going to the gym for yourself, not for anyone else, that’s all that matters!

Remind yourself that even though other people may seem more fit than you or have been at it for longer, they are still human beings with feelings and emotions just like everyone else. And just because someone might look better than I do in their workout gear doesn’t mean anything about me personally. I’s just clothing after all!

Focus instead on how good exercise makes my body feel: stronger muscles; healthier heart rate; clearer mind (with less stress).

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Workout with friends; it will give you motivation and make the time go by faster!

Working out with friends is one of the best ways to stay motivated and have fun while you’re at it. You can push each other, motivate each other, share tips and tricks, and help each other with form or technique. Plus, when you’re having fun together in an exercise class or gym session it makes time fly by much faster!

If you don’t have a friend who wants to work out with you regularly then try finding one online through social media groups like Facebook or Meetup (which has lots of fitness groups). If there aren’t any groups for what specifically interests me then maybe I’ll start my own!

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Don’t let the people judging you define who you become.

  • Don’t let the people judging you define who you become.

If no one is around, or if it’s just your friend and they’re not being a jerk, then go ahead and do whatever exercise makes sense for your body. If there are other people around and they’re giving advice that doesn’t seem helpful to your goal (like “you should lift more” or “that’s too heavy”), ask them why they think so. If their reasoning isn’t sound (for example: “because I said so”), ignore them! And if their reasoning is sound but simply doesn’t apply to your particular situation (e.g., I’m training for an athletic event where speed matters more than weight), then keep doing what works best for YOU!

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Remember that being uncomfortable is okay!

Remember that being uncomfortable is okay!

Exercise is a great way to build confidence, but it can also make you feel weird and awkward at first. You might feel anxious about going to the gym, or even embarrassed by the way your body looks when compared to other people’s bodies in the gym (or on Instagram). If these feelings sound familiar, don’t worry. They’re completely normal! The important thing is not to let them discourage you from exercising: instead of focusing on how uncomfortable or insecure it makes you feel at first, focus instead on all of the benefits exercises has given people who have struggled with similar issues in their lives.

For example: “I know this feels weird right now,” they might tell themselves while working out for the first time in years; “but remember how much better I’ll feel after working out today? That’s worth dealing with some discomfort!”

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Don’t compare yourself to others at the gym. Because we all have different goals and experiences.

Don’t compare yourself to others at the gym. Everyone has different goals and experiences, so don’t judge yourself based on someone else’s progress. If you see someone who is fit and muscular, remember that they have been working out for years and know what they’re doing! It might take a while for you to get results like theirs. But if you keep going with your workouts, you will eventually get there too!

Also remember: everyone’s body is different; some people naturally have more muscle than others do. So even though one person may look more toned than another person at first glance, it doesn’t mean anything about their fitness level overall (or how much time they spent working out).

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Set realistic expectations and don’t be disappointed when they’re not met right away. It takes time to get results!

If you’re already feeling a little deflated, don’t worry! You can still be confident at the gym. Just remember that it takes time to get results and set realistic expectations for yourself.

  • Your goals should be achievable but challenging. Don’t set goals that are too high or else you’ll feel like a failure when they aren’t met right away. On the other hand, if your goal is too easy then there will be no sense of accomplishment from completing it–and what fun is that?
  • Don’t compare yourself with others who have different bodies than yours or who work out differently than you do. Everyone has their own goals and preferences when working out; try not to compare yourself with them unless it helps motivate/inspire yourself (like seeing someone else doing something great!).

You can do it! Going to the gym is something that will do great things for your body and mind!

  • You can do it! Going to the gym is something that will do great things for your body and mind.
  • The gym is not just a place to look good, but also to get fit and healthy.
  • It’s a safe environment where you can work out without worrying about being judged by others or feeling unsafe around other people.
  • The gym is also a great place to meet new people who have similar interests as you do (working out!).


So, if you’re looking for some motivation, remember that we all have our ups and downs. Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed by the gym or its culture. Focus on your own goals, keep going when things get tough, and find friends who will help keep you motivated!

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