Every few months, the internet rebrands something we’ve always had and suddenly it’s a trend.
This year’s version? A “Ralph Lauren Christmas.”
Apparently, plaid, pine, candles, and coziness are revolutionary again. Except they’re not. They’re just… Christmas. The same Christmas our parents, grandparents, and literally every holiday movie since the 1940s have shown us.
But now, it’s a vibe. A marketing hook. A way to sell sweaters, wreaths, and a curated “old money” version of nostalgia.
Here’s the thing: there’s nothing wrong with loving the cozy, classic look. We all crave warmth, family, and comfort around the holidays. But calling it a trend and turning it into another excuse to buy more stuff. Misses the whole point.
It’s not “Ralph Lauren Christmas.” It’s just Christmas.
A time to slow down. To be present. To find beauty in the ordinary, not just the staged.
We don’t need to buy another cashmere throw or film a perfect holiday tablescape to feel festive.
Overconsumption
Every time the internet rebrands simplicity, it feeds the same machine. Overconsumption dressed as “aesthetic.”
And honestly? It’s exhausting.
So this year, skip the performative perfection. Light your same old candle. Wear the pajamas you already have.
And remember: you don’t need a trend to make the holidays feel special.
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