Introduction: Talking Stage
1The talking stage is just that, a stage. It has no rules and so you can create the rules for yourself. The most important thing to remember in the talking stage is that it’s not about you and it never will be. It’s about finding out who this person really is. Don’t waste your time on someone that’s wasting your time or 1allow yourself to get too attached to someone you’re not even sure you like yet because just like any other relationship, they might not be worth it in the end!
Don’t put your all into the talking stage.
Don’t get too attached to the talking stage. This is not a time to put your heart into it. Don’t over-commit, and don’t make promises you can’t keep. You do NOT want to end up feeling used, hurt or angry later on down the road!
Don’t give away too much of yourself during this phase of dating either. It’s nice when someone appreciates what you have to say, but don’t spend your time talking about things that are really important to you just because someone seems interested for now… because they won’t always be interested later on down the road!
Don’t waste your time on someone that’s wasting your time.
Don’t waste your time on someone that’s wasting your time.
Don’t be a martyr and stay in a relationship where you’re treated poorly or the person is uninterested in being with you. It’s important to look out for yourself first, because if you don’t, who will?
Don’t allow yourself to get too attached to someone you’re not even sure you like.
Don’t allow yourself to get too attached too quickly. The talking stage is not the time for your heart to get involved in this new relationship. You should take it slowly and see how things go before giving them a chance. Don’t forget that just because he/she’s interested in you doesn’t mean they are perfect for you. If they don’t treat you right, then they aren’t worth your time!
The talking stage has no rules and so you can create the rules for yourself
The talking stage is not a marriage. It’s the beginning of a relationship, and it’s the time when you get to decide what your relationship will be like. So if you want to be in control of your life, don’t feel bad about being selfish and acting on your own needs! But just because you can act selfishly doesn’t mean that other people won’t notice or care about it—if anything, they’ll be impressed by how much power and self-confidence you have!
You don’t have to follow any rules here; in fact, this is a great place for breaking them (as long as those rules aren’t too important). If someone tells me that I should always do something or should never do something else, my first instinct is usually “Well let me try both ways and see which one works better.” Sometimes doing things differently than normal makes us realize why everyone does them in the first place—and sometimes doing things differently from normal just means we’re having fun with our lives instead of letting ourselves get stuck doing things out of habit or obligation.
Conclusion
The talking stage is just that, a stage. It’s a time to talk and get to know each other. But there are no rules at this stage, so don’t make yourself feel bad for not following them. If you’re spending most of your time on someone who doesn’t seem interested in anything besides sex, then it’s time to move on!
