“SOULMATES TEND TO GO BACK TO WHO FEELS LIKE HOME”- N.R. HART
Disclaimer, This is not me putting him down. I am a true believer that you shouldn’t kick someone who is already down. But there is a lot we can learn from his situation. Because remember “Learning from your mistakes is smart. Learning from the mistakes of others is wise.” So early this year the world lost model, Kim Porter, former girlfriend to Diddy and the mother of his children. She was a model and friends with many. Her and Diddy were a beautiful couple, but it never lead too marriage. There was a lesson in the situation. The lesson being, “You don’t know what you have until its gone.
Many don’t appreciate a good thing until it’s gone or they do know that they have something good but always assume/expect it to be there (which is worse). It’s worse because they can go “do them” while having the thought in their head, “I have a good one for when I’m ready to settle down”. Diddy responded with “I know” and “I wasn’t ready”. Sometimes you aren’t ready for someone that you know is special.I have a couple of guys that I know would be perfect for me, but the stage I am at in my life, I know that I would just ruin them, which isn’t fair. But that’s the thing about time.
I mean not that I am judging but if you were in Diddy’s position during that time, many would call his “prime”. He had so many choices of women, lots of money, and the world at his hands. At the time, I wouldn’t want to settle down either. He was young and living his best life, so settling down was probably not his priority at that moment. Many young men and even women feel that way. I hope I don’t hurt my soulmate because I am not ready.
When many asked Diddy “Why didn’t you marry her” and said “I messed up”. You have to sort of give Diddy his props and respect. Most would drag someone along in life with them, hurting them, until they are ready. Diddy knew that he wasn’t ready for her love and to reciprocate it and he set her free. He let her go until he realized that she was perfect for him. Unfortunately, it was bad timing. All he can say now is “lesson learned” and remember the good times with her.
When I say that, it brings up the idea of what a soulmate truly is. Do I believe in soulmates? Yes! But do I believe that we have more than one? Yes! Come on now, there are 7.7 billion people in the world, and you’re trying to tell me that we are only perfect for one person. Nah fam! There are a handful of people that we are destined to connect with and have a bond many won’t understand. The journey to them is different for everyone. Some find them, and sadly some don’t.
So, do I think that Diddy will have another opportunity for love with a soulmate? Yes! A soulmate is more than just loving someone. Love is a strong energy and mixing it with passion is even stronger. It is two souls being tied together. You don’t just want to be with them, but your heart yearns for them. Obviously, many throw the words love and soulmate around to describe just anyone, but your heart will let you know when you find the now. I don’t think I have found my soulmate just yet, there have been a couple of guys that came close, but again I’m not psychic. In the future I will look back and everything will piece together.
Sometimes I question why certain people come back in my life after a long time of not speaking. And no I am not taking about the ones with certain negative intentions. I’m talking about the ones you can go weeks without speaking to, but when you link back up, it’s like you never stopped talking. There is just that person that makes you feel like you are at home. Like you can be yourself. Like they know you better than you know yourself. That is what I feel like a soulmate is. And Kim was that to Diddy. What happened to Diddy remind me of my biggest fear and that is regret. I try so hard not to have any regret with something. If I feel the need to send a text or have a certain conversation with someone in order for me to feel content, then I do just that. I don’t care how “corny” or “needy” that comes off. I don’t want to live a life of what ifs and thats what I encourage others to do.
R.I.H MS. KIM POTER! YOU HAD A BEAUTIFUL SOUL!
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