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How to know they’re the one

How to know they’re the one

If you’re looking for love, it’s important to know what makes someone the perfect partner. While there are plenty of things that can help you determine if someone is the one (such as their personality), there are also a few questionnaires that can help give you an idea about whether or not your significant other is right for you. Here are some questions to ask yourself:

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Do they make you feel happy?

Do they make you feel happy?

If the answer is “yes,” then they’re the one. They don’t have to be your best friend, but they should make you feel happy and excited when they’re around. If a person makes you laugh so much that tears come out of your eyes, there’s no way he or she can truly hurt you—and if he or she doesn’t make you laugh, it might mean that something is wrong with him/her (or maybe even with both of them).

Do they make you feel safe?

The most important thing to look for in a partner is safety. A good relationship should make you feel like you can be yourself, and they should make sure that they are comfortable with your quirks and personality.

If someone makes me feel safe, I know that I can trust them completely and not have to worry about anything—my boundaries will never be violated. In fact, if someone does violate my boundaries (which happens rarely), then it means something went wrong somewhere along the line! It’s important for us all (and especially young people) not only to accept ourselves but also to respect those who accept us unconditionally as well; otherwise, nothing positive can come from this relationship anyways!

Do they accept the things you do without judgment?

If they don’t judge you, criticize you, or hide their feelings then they are the one. They will accept the things that you do without judgment, whether they be good or bad. They won’t try and change who you are or what makes up your personality. If they’re not afraid of being vulnerable with other people then it’s safe to say that there is a strong connection between the two of you!

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What is their perspective on life?

You know how people say that you can tell a lot about someone by the way they treat your dog? Well, it’s basically the same thing with relationships. At the end of the day, we all want to be around people who accept us for who we are. And who aren’t constantly asking us why our hair looks so bad or what happened last night at the bar. If your date keeps asking you questions about yourself and doesn’t seem interested in anything beyond your general plans for today (like where did you get those shoes from?), then chances are he or she isn’t really looking for something serious either (the way we assume).

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How well are they able to communicate with you?

This is a big one. How well are they able to communicate with you?

For example, if they can’t understand what you’re saying or can’t express themselves clearly enough for you to understand them, then it might be time to move on. In this case, it’s not about how much money the person makes—it’s about whether or not they are able to communicate effectively with other people in general and especially when dealing with individuals from different backgrounds (like yourself).

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Are they strong enough for their partner and for you?

Are they strong enough for their partner and for you?

If your partner is the one, they will be able to support you in times of need. They will never put up with anything that makes them unhappy or makes them feel bad about themselves. They won’t make fun of you when something goes wrong, but rather help fix things so that nothing goes wrong again (and yes: there will be things going wrong).

If your partner is the one, then there’s a good chance that he/she is also strong enough to hold his/her own against all odds—which means being able to withstand criticism from friends and family members who don’t understand why someone would choose someone like him/her over other people (or even worse: why he/she would choose an imperfect person over perfect ones).

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You can tell if your significant other is the one by asking yourself these questions.

The first step to figuring out if your significant other is the one is being honest with yourself. This can be a scary thing, but it’s important that you don’t let fear keep you from asking questions or seeking help from others.

You should also consider asking for advice and reassurance from friends and family members who know both of you well enough to give good insight into what they think will work best in your relationship (or not). If something feels wrong or off-kilter, don’t be afraid of asking! It’s okay if nothing comes up right away; just keep an open mind about everything that comes up during this process so that when something does come up, which inevitably will happen sooner than later down the road—you’ll already know how much value each piece adds toward making sure things stay positive moving forward together as a couple.”


If you’re looking for your soulmate, then the best way to find out is by asking them these questions. They will be able to tell you if they are the one and if they have what it takes to make you feel happy, safe and accepted in their life.

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