| ac·count·a·bil·i·ty /əˌkoun(t)əˈbilədē/ Learn to pronounce noun the fact or condition of being accountable; responsibility. |
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Blaming, whining, deflecting accountability, risk aversion, and resistance to change are but a handful of symptoms of the adversity-beaten individual and organization.Paul G. Stoltz PhD, . Adversity Quotient Work
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Accountability is a statement of personal promise, both to yourself and to the people around you, to deliver specific defined results. Brian Dive, The Accountable Leader
Today’s Topic
As you can see by the title, I will be talking about accountability and gaslighting. These are things I cannot stand that people do. So, not many keep up with celebrities and their lives. I can see why. I do however pick out conversations that me a and my friends talk about in girl chat. A lot of the issues are situations that everyone goes through.
Getting Caught
So I love Saweetie, I feel like we would be friends if we knew each other and her ending of a relationship is the perfect example, of what the cheater likes to do. Watch a clip just to see a snip of what’s happeneing. I really dislike when a woman has to change her self in order to satisfy a man. I’m not comfortable with threesomes, so if I was asked to give one, I would simply leave the man.
I have written multiple post that are important when getting into a relationship.
Many Cheaters like to play mind games, and it seems like when they get caught, they are more mad at the fact that they got caught and not at the fact that they are losing someone they claim to care about. So, once the world found out that he cheat this is what Quavo tweeted:
You can clearly see that Quavo lacks in taking accountability and there are so many people like that. I hate that so much. Why are you choosing to be blind to what you did and madder at the consequences? You never heard “you reap what you sow”? Respectfully, I do not feel sorry for people like that.
Playing the victim is a role a person plays. When a person plays being a victim, he is looking for attention and often times use it as a tool to manipulate situations and people. It’s always another’s fault why things go badly for him. He won’t take responsibility for his part. He will get people’s attention and play people’s feelings, seeking sympathy.
A person that does this usually has emotional issues. It could be an even deeper issue like a personality disorder. You will find that the more time you spend with them, the more emotionally drained you become. It’s exhausting because there is never a dull moment. It’s constant drama. And it’s always about them.
There are literally people who will play victim after what they did is brought to attention. I know a lot of people still in relationships because someone manipulated their way out of a problem. You see me, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and he would do this all the time. I left because yea that’s not going to work for me.
I want you to protect your heart. Many people lack emotional intelligence and will hurt those who do. Be safe out here. Let me know in the comments what you think. Also be sure to like, subscribe, follow, and share.
