What is a narcissist ?

People don’t abandon people they love, they abandon people they were using.

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For those of you who have followed my blog for a while, I tend to talk about narcissist and many do not know what that is or confuse it for something else. I thought I would take the time to explain what it is and how people that are a narcissist can affect your life. The definition is:

nar·cis·sist

/ˈnärsəsəst/

noun

  • 1.a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves:

In one of my older post, I explained my experience with a narcissist and it changed my life so much in a negative way at first. Did you miss that post? Click below!

https://purejoi18.com/2019/05/23/my-experience-with-a-narcissist/

The monster you saw in the end is who they really are.

We encounter narcissism in our daily lives. Some not so bad and others very extreme. There are different levels to narcissism. It’s a very interesting character flaw to read on. Here is a short video, explaining it.

Narcissist: The only people whose love leaves you feeling less confident, confused, and unhappy as the relationship progresses.

My Experience

Like I mentioned in my other post, my experience with a narcissist changed my life so much. The very confident girl from the beginning, was an insecure girl in the end. I was questioning my actions in the situation and also questioning myself as a person.I was always blaming myself for the way things went wrong. I would do everything to make things right again, when to be honest, it wasn’t my fault that it went wrong. I don’t know why that person treated me like that and I never will because narcissist never tell the truth. But to change how I look at this experience I don’t look at the negative. I look at the positive. Not only did that experience help me change my boundaries but it showed me that not everyone has the same heart as me unfortunately.

You have to be careful who you let in and remind them of your boundaries because believe that if they are a narcissist, they will take advantage of you lacking boundaries. Learn from me, because I had to learn the hard way.

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Maybe a week ago, I posted on Quora a question. I asked people: In 140 characters or less, what is your definition of a narcissist? And I wanted to share some of the answers that I received.

These are just a few of the answers that I received. To read more, I will provide the link below.

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