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Tips For Self Love

Hey Loves and Welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception.

What many people don’t tell you is how to have self-love. Although they talk about it and how important it is, they never tell you how to have it. Getting rid of the problem could be so much easier if you know how to do it. There are so many books on self-love but usually use negative connotations. 

Let me share my thoughts on self-love with you and give you some advice. I honestly feel like self-love has been weaponized for single people. It is common to hear conversations about how you need to love yourself before you even think about dating. Which I don’t get, because I’ve seen a lot of people and relationships with very little self-love so people with a lot of love.


regard for one’s own well-being and happiness (chiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic characteristic).

How to Have Self Love:

My goal is to be a mirror for others who want to have self-love. According to researchers: You need to start off with treating yourself like you treat someone you truly care about. You are a priority as well.

  • Treat yourself kind
  • Treat yourself with respect
  • Create boundariea
  • Prioritize yourself
  • Be your true self
  • Don’t be your worst enemy

How Can I give myself Self love?



  • Try yoga
  • Get a massage
  • Get the right amount of sleep
  • Drink water
  • Workout
  • Get a facial


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  • Get therapy
  • Express your feelings cause they’re valid
  • Celebrate your accomplishments
  • Forgive even without an apology
  • Laugh


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  • Do charity or community service
  • Pray
  • Quiet time
  • Go enjoy nature


  • Learn something new
  • Listen to music
  • Pick up a hobby
  • read
  • meditate


I want to know what category you all need to focus on for this year! Please let me know in the comments below. We all have some thing that we need to continuously work towards getting better at. For me it would probably be, spiritual. Sometimes I do a little a lot of issues get in the way of me being great or remembering that I am a good person but I know that if I continue to work on it I will have all the stuff loved. So let me know in the comments! Don’t forget to like, share, subscribe, and comment. I will see you in the next post

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