The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces, but the right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace.
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Now I know you’re probably thinking, “I already have my opinion at the topic at hand”. I just want to give you another perspective, This is how I look at the whole “right person wrong time” debate. Because we all know the cliche saying of “if it’s the right person, there isn’t a wrong time, but I believe otherwise.
There are so many people in my generation who want the finished product. I don’t know, there is just a lack of patience in my age group. I am not excluding myself, because trust me I am still trying to learn the art of patience. It starts with acknowledging that I need to learn it. There are many people who think that when they meet someone, that person should have everything 100% together and be perfect. Yes, that person should know what they want and want to grow. But sometimes that person has not finished doing the work on themselves while they’re single, but they can be that person for you.
Honest feelings and bad timing make the most painful combination.
Thought One: Different factors take a toll
Let me just state that this post is my OPINION. Now that I have said that let me continue. I think you can Have met an amazing person for you but, if you two are in two different places in the world, one needs to get their finances in place, one is dealing with a loss and that’s their focus, if could be hard to be ready for a relationship today. Say that you met a guy and he was just a the beginning of his career and you were at the peak of yours. You two are vining together but you’re not yet in a place to take things to the next level. You two both know that you’re everything you’ve wanted in a partner but due to timing, you’re not yet ready to get too serious.
Then come find me.
Thought Two: They are still growing
You two just may be meant to be together, however, they may still have some maturing to do. There are stages in life, and you two may be right for each other in stage five but, one is in stage four and one is in two. Not everyone goes through life at the same pace, that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re bad people. I am to saying that it takes time to get where you need to be. You can’t be in a relationship and not know who you are. I have seen people and know people in a relationship where it is literally their identity. You take that relationship away and they go with it. I’m not judging, but I don’t want to be that person and I don’t want to be with someone who is like that. If we both need time away from each other to work on ourselves, then so be it. If its meant for us to be with each other, we will find ourselves back with each other at the RIGHT TIME.
You have to work at relationships. You can’t just walk out on them every time something goes wrong.
Thought Three: Great things take time
There have been times where I met someone who was one of the best people to ever come into my life. But we both still had some healing from the past to do. I wasn’t expecting to fall for that person but I did. I’m not that person to jump from relationship to relationship to heal myself. I need to make sure that I have completely moved on and know that I’m ready, no matter if I have found someone amazing. I don’t want to bleed on someone else causing them to bleed. It’s selfish. Hopefully once I’m healed I’ll get the chance to be with the person, if not shrugs.
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