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“13 Things To Remember When You Realize He’s Not Right For You”

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

 – Buddha

Hey loves, Welcome back!

As you know, I have been reading a book every month and have been sharing my thoughts on what the book is talking about. I always enjoy talking about uncomfortable topics! I have several helpful posts, so be sure to check some of the posts out!

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Quick reminder what February’s book is! Be sure to buy it or borrow from your local library.


I have made a quiz to get you thinking. Don’t worry, this is not a quiz that tests your memory or knowledge like in school. Don’t worry, this is just something to help you think about your relationship. The link is below, click and enjoy!


“When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.”

– Jean Shinoda Bolen

Chapter 2

Chapter two was brief, but it was a reminder to remember who you are and that everyone is not right for you. The author gives us tips on what a healthy relationship looks like. Many people think that arguing all the time and being stagnant are signs of healthy relationships. Yes, relationships have their ups and downs, but to a certain extent. Furthermore, knowing the difference requires discernment.

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One of the tips was

“Follow your heart, and your brain alike. One isn’t more important than the other, they both matter equally. It’s important to make smart decisions, that back up your emotional feelings.”

Excerpt From: Thought Catalog. “The Art Of Letting Go.” Apple Books. https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-art-of-letting-go/id1088918035

I did a post on how not having a healthy balance can lead to trouble.

“Don’t waste your energy trying to change opinions … Do your thing, and don’t care if they like it.”

– Tina Fey

Wrap up

At last, just be sure you know who you are before entering a relationship. This helps you not to end with the wrong person. I promise you, slow and steady wins the race.

I hope this post has opened your eyes to the impotence of being selective of who you date. Please like, comment, share, and follow. Also, check out my other post. I guarantee that you won’t regret it.

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