Today I wanted about an uncomfortable topic for a lot of people in this generation. Having thought about it for a while, I noticed how many damaged people try to love other damaged people. By continuing the damage cycle, they fail to heal themselves. People are playing the blame game so much when it comes to who is causing problems. Both genders equally damage each other. And instead of taking accountability for what part we play, we are all just continuing the cycle of damaging each other.

Let Me Give You an Example of Damaged People

Despite what many people think and how tired they are of hearing how much our childhood affects our relationships in our adult lives. It is so true. So many people‘s damage stems from their childhood. And they carry it on in their relationships these days. I don’t know if I’m of you have seen the show euphoria. But it is a good show to check out if you like things that teach you and are relatable. Below is a video that kind of explains a love triangle going on between three damaged people. They’re all damaged in a different way. Check it out below.

Damage

Relationships are about giving your heart to someone trusting that they will not hurt you. The problem is, a lot of the time, the outcome is not what we hoped for. Many songs refer to the difficulty of dating in the modern world. I’ll give you a prime example. Listen below.

What I hope

I hope that we stop damaging each other and do the work to heal. Our outlooks on love have been alterd so much and it is sad. Love should not hurt. Yes it is work and yes there are lessons. But in a healthy way. Here is a quote that I can unfortunately relate to .

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“There are two reasons I was scare to let people in; the damage they could do, the damage they could find.”

— Chris M Geonu

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I want to know what you all think about damaged people. Are you damaged or have you dated someone who is? Is it hard? Let me know in the comments below. I also have some good news coming, so stay tuned by subscribing below.

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