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Walking Away from Someone you Still Love

Having to walk away from someone you love

It’s important to remember what it’s like to be in a healthy relationship.

Were you able to let go of hurt feelings and forgive?

When you forgive someone, it’s not just about closing the door on the past. It’s also about accepting that person as they are now and letting go of your hurt feelings.

Forgiveness is an important part of our healing process because it helps us move forward in life while allowing us to keep our hearts open rather than closing them up like a fist around a rock.

When we’re angry or upset with someone else, it can be tempting to hold onto these feelings rather than letting them go so that we don’t have to deal with what happened again later on down the road when we might need their help again (or even worse—when they might need ours!). But in reality, forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting what happened; instead, it means letting go of those old emotions so that there is space for new ones instead!

Did your partner respect your feelings and needs?

The first thing to remember is that your partner should be able to respect your feelings and needs. If you’re not feeling respected, it can be a sign that something isn’t right in the relationship. It’s also important for them to understand what makes you feel loved or wanted and how they can help make those things happen.

If your partner doesn’t seem willing or able to talk about these things with you, it may mean that there’s some serious problems going on in their own lives—and they aren’t being open enough with the person they love most: YOU!

If this happens often enough (or if it’s been going on for a while), maybe it’s time for some serious introspection around what kind of relationship this really is?

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Did you feel loved and supported by your partner?

Did you feel loved and supported by your partner?

We’ve all been there. You’re in a relationship, but it’s not quite right. Maybe the person you love is too clingy or needy, or maybe they just don’t seem to care much about anything else besides themselves. In either case, these feelings can be hard to deal with on your own—especially if they persist over time and become more intense as time goes on.

But what exactly does “being loved” mean? It means feeling like someone truly cares about who you are as a person and wants nothing more than for things between them and the people around them to stay exactly how they are at this very moment in time (or until something else happens). When someone loves us back like this… well… I think most people would agree that it feels pretty good!

Did you feel like being together was safe?

Did you feel like being together was safe?

Safety is a feeling that comes from the inside, not the outside. The way we define safety is by how we feel when we are with someone and whether or not they make us feel safe. Safety is also about trust and security; it means being able to be yourself in front of your partner without having to worry about what they think or say about who you are.

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Looking back, do you feel that the relationship was a positive one?

Do you feel that the relationship was a positive one?

The answer to this question is important because it will help you evaluate the quality of your relationships in the future. It’s also important to consider how your own life has changed since then, and whether or not those changes are for the better. Have you learned something new about yourself? Have you changed as a person? If so, what were those things and how did they affect where you are today? Was there an aspect of this relationship that made it more positive than others before or after it ended up being less than ideal for both parties involved

It’s important to remember what it’s like to be in a healthy relationship.

It’s important to remember what it’s like to be in a healthy relationship. Healthy relationships are characterized by respect and support, honesty and trust, mutuality and reciprocity, and safety and fun.

The first step toward learning how to walk away from someone you love is to recognize that most of us have been conditioned by society and media alike—and our own experiences—to expect more from our partners than they can give us. We expect them to provide for us; we expect them not only financially but also emotionally (or at least on some level). And because these expectations are so ingrained into our psyches, when they don’t come true we often feel disappointed or angry with ourselves for having been duped or conned into believing that this person could fulfill all of those needs if only they were given half an opportunity!


If you think back on your relationship, what do you feel like? Do you remember being happy in the relationship? What were some of the positive things about being with that person? Were there any negative aspects to your relationship?

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