Communication is power. Those who have mastered its effective use can change their own experience of the world and the world’s experience of them. All behavior and feelings find their original roots in some form of communication. – Tony Robbins

Communication has been the focus of several of my blogs, and it has been a really eye-opening experience for me. When it comes to basic qualities and morals, my encounters with people who are unable to communicate their boundaries with others are uncountable.

Let it be known

As a result of how they treat you, you would be surprised at how many people assume you know your boundaries. This generation is causing many problems, such as going ghost. I have been a victim of someone going ghost on me several times. There may be some of you wondering what a definition down below means.

go ghost

To “disappear” by not calling, texting, or talking to a certain person. “Going ghost” is a move typically used by friends w/ benefits or booty calls when they no longer want to associate with the other person, but it can also describe a friend you haven’t heard from in a long time.

Constantly talking isn’t necessarily communicating. – Charlie Kaufman

See for Yourself

However, there was a discussion on Twitter recently about making it “normal” to go ghost when you’re “not in a mood.” And there were a lot of people agreeing with him. To allow you to read the comments on your own, I’ve included the tweet here.

Attention

 But I was disgusted at how many people were agreeing with this man. You wouldn’t have the energy to have a good conversation if you were in a bad mood. People who care about you will completely understand. They will understand that you aren’t ready to express yourself. But it’s coming to my awareness that those people that you assume care don’t. So instead of considering that mom is concerned about your mental health, you just go AWOL and then wonder why they feel some type of way. In order to help us agree on why communication is important, I will link a few of my posts below.

The Post

There’s more to this than I’m letting on.

Can we agree?

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  The Comfort Shows & Movies I’ll Always Rewatch
  The post discusses the emotional connection to movies and TV shows watched multiple times, identifying them as sources of comfort and nostalgia. It highlights several favorites, including Glitter, Pretty Little Liars, and Coyote Ugly, emphasizing their impact on personal identity and growth while noting their timeless appeal for repeated viewing.
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  What Are Three Objects I Couldn’t Live Without?
  The author shares three essential objects that provide emotional grounding: a journal and Bible for therapy and clarity, a laptop symbolizing independence and creative expression, and a photo of their late mother representing connection and love. These items reflect the significance of expression, independence, and connection in their life.
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  Change Is the Only Constant Thing in Life: A Girl Chat We All Need
  The author reflects on the inevitability of change, sharing personal experiences of loss, betrayal, and growth. Through these challenges, they learned about trust, the evolution of relationships, and the importance of shedding past identities. Embracing change fosters strength and resilience, highlighting that personal transitions can lead to profound self-discovery.
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  What Experiences in Life Helped You Grow the Most?
  The content reflects on how personal experiences, particularly painful ones, drive growth and self-discovery. Key life events, such as loss, betrayal, feeling different, and reclaiming one’s voice through creative outlets, significantly shaped resilience, self-awareness, and boundaries. Ultimately, growth emerges from discomfort and self-acceptance, fostering empathy and empowerment.
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  Cream of Wheat: Delicious & Iron-Friendly Ways to Boost Your Breakfast
  The content emphasizes the benefits of Cream of Wheat for individuals with low iron levels, suggesting various recipes that enhance iron absorption. Ideas include adding vitamin C-rich fruits, nuts, and seeds, or using savory ingredients for a nutritious breakfast. Tips for improving iron intake and maintaining variety are also provided.