How a Man Treats His Ex is How He Will Treat You

How a Man Treats His Ex is How He Will Treat You

Hey Loves and Welcome Back to Joi’s Journey of Perception. The inability of a person to speak positively about their ex is the biggest turnoff. It’s obvious that they still feel some way for them. When someone has nothing positive to say about their ex, that should raise suspicions. You used to have positive feelings about this person. I wish to discuss my views on this matter. To ensure that you don’t miss anything, first subscribe below.

I want to do a precautionary post on my thoughts on this topic. I was discussing this with a few friends in my group chat and I just thought it was very interesting how people look at this topic differently. So I wanted to give my perspective and you do not have to agree but I do want to hear your opinion.

How did this topic come about?

I think this topic came about when we were discussing different celebrities and their situationships. For example the baby and Dani. Most of us agreed that how a guy treats his ex is how he will treat you. And can I be a witness to that? I think I can! One of my exes gave me the red flags right there and I chose to ignore them. He would just say that he doesn’t speak to his ex in a negative manner. And I was like not even cordial? And he said no.

Most of us agreed that the way a guy treats his ex is how he will treat you. And can I be a witness to that? I think I can! One of my exes gave me the red flags right there and I chose to ignore them. He would just say that he doesn’t speak to his ex in a negative manner. And I was like not even cordial? And he said no.

Now I wasn’t shot in the sense that he didn’t have a friendship with the ex. I was just more shocked at how he said it. Things just ended with them, basically, he had to ghost her. Who knew a few months later I would be in the same position as her? There is always more than one side to a story and he happens to only give me one.

Here’s the thing

Here’s the reason why we thought of Da baby. He treated his baby’s mother like a dog to get with Dani. And then Dani at shocked that he treated her just like he treated his baby’s mother. I’m not saying people can’t change, I am however saying that they have to actively want to make that change. And a lot of the time they don’t want to. This is why he continued his actions from his previous relationships onto the next one.

What you should learn

What I’m hoping you learned from this post is to pay attention to the signs. If he has a negative past with an ex and continuously speaks down on him, he just may not be ready for a new relationship, especially not with you. I trust that all my readers are strong independent women. we are not gonna fall for this again.

I want to know what you all think! Let me know in the comment below if you believe this phrase! Until the next post I hope you guys enjoy your night and your Valentine’s Day! Be sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe.💋

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