26 Things I’ve Learned My 26th Year

A Birthday is a new beginning –
A birthday is the first day of another lovely year,
A year of new tomorrows that is shining, bright and clear,
A year of possibilities as endless as the sky, and a chance to meet the challenges in everything you try.
Author Unknown

What’s Up, Everyone!

Today is my birthday! Yes, another year. I am now 26 years young . I guess you can say that the 30s are nearing and I should be adulting right. WRONG! I am still as confused as ever. I do still have much growing to do, but I have also learned so much in my years on this Earth. I wanted to share a few with you!

I think time is a social construct, so with me being another year, does not necessarily represent who I should be as a person. Although, I am hard on myself, because I do not think that I am where I need to be in life, I would like to take time to applaud myself on how far I have come.

With us being in a pandemic, I wasn’t able to really do anything that I wanted to do for my birthday, like travel. But that will not stop me from being appreciative for another year. So, these are the things that I have learned in Chapter 25 of my life.

“Today is the oldest you have been, and the youngest you will ever be. Make the most of it!” Nicky Gumbel

Lesson 1:Not everyone has the same heart as you

Not everyone has the same heart as you. As soon as I learned this. I was able to relax and not have such high expectattions of others. I

Lesson 2: Therapy is a Life Saver

Lesson 3: Healing

Lesson 4: Lust and Love are two Different Things


Lesson 5: I’d Rather Lose a Lover than Love a Loser

Lesson 6: Stop Dating Potential

Lesson 7: Your Feelings are Valid

Lesson 8: Your Story is Helping Someone

Lesson 9: The Story isn’t Over


Lesson 10; Learn to face my problems. “face” them metaphorically

Lesson 11: Have a strong community that supports me

Lesson 12: Don’t search for home in other people

Lesson 13: Learn to let go

Lesson 14: Speaking calmly about my boundaries

Lesson 15: Silence speaks loud

Lesson 16: Protect my Energy

Lesson 17: Try New Things

Lesson 18: Be content with going places alone and being alone

Lesson 19: Growing Hurts

Lesson 20: Life Goes on

Lesson 21: Learn About Myself

1 thought on “26 Things I’ve Learned My 26th Year

Leave a Reply

%d bloggers like this: