Every love story is unique.
Every wedding day is filled with emotions that words can barely hold.
And yet…the right words can capture a lifetime in a moment.
That’s where With This Word comes in.
I’m Joi White, a writer, storyteller, and hopeless romantic with a passion for helping people express their hearts in a way that feels authentic, moving, and unforgettable. Whether you’re promising forever to the love of your life or raising a toast in their honor, I’m here to make sure your words match the magnitude of the moment.
What I Offer
With This Word is a vow & speech writing service designed for weddings, engagements, and milestone celebrations. I work closely with you to create:
- Custom Wedding Vows – Romantic, poetic, or lighthearted, tailored to your voice and story.
- Wedding Toasts & Speeches – For best men, maids of honor, parents, or friends who want to shine at the mic.
- Couples Vow Bundles – Matching vows for both partners with tone and style in perfect harmony.
Optional add-ons:
- 48-hour rush delivery
- Performance coaching so you can deliver with confidence
Why This Matters
Too often, people settle for generic vows they found online. But your love isn’t generic. Your words should reflect your memories, your quirks, your private jokes, and your deepest promises.
The same goes for speeches. A best man or maid of honor toast isn’t just a formality. It’s your moment to celebrate, inspire, and move everyone in the room.
With my background in creative writing and my ability to translate raw emotion into polished, powerful language, I make sure your vows or speech feel completely and beautifully you.


How It Works
- Fill Out the Intake Form – Share your story, tone preferences, and any must-have details.
- Receive Your Draft – Delivered within 3–5 days (or faster with rush service).
- Request a Revision – Fine-tuned until you love every word.
- Own the Moment – Speak with confidence, knowing your words are unforgettable.

Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together
If you’re ready to make your vows or speech as unforgettable as the day itself, I’d love to work with you.
💌 Click here to book your spot to get started.


Because when the day is over, the cake is gone, and the flowers have wilted, your words will remain.
With This Word…Where Your Love Story Finds Its Voice.
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