Why you should not tell a man what you look for in a man
Men may not understand. They think they know everything and are experts on how to make a woman happy. Or worse, pretend to be that perfect guy, to get what they want from you. Men can be sexist and will judge you if you are too picky in relationships. Men may want to impress you with what they can do, but will not necessarily be interested in meeting your needs. You don’t have to answer all of his questions about why he is not meeting your expectations in order for him to change.” Subscribe first, so you don’t miss out. Let’s talk about Why you should not tell a man what you look for in a man.
Men may not understand.
Men are not always logical, and they can be unaware of the consequences of their actions. They often do not understand the effect that their behavior has on other people, or even themselves.
If you want a man to treat you like an adult woman who is capable of making decisions on her own behalf, don’t tell him what he should do. Instead, encourage him to make the choice that feels right for himself—and let him know why it’s important!
Men will pretend to be exactly what you want
Some men will ask you to explain in detail what type of man you want, so they can become that very man. They are not upfront with their intentions and pretend to be a knight in shining armor long enough for you to let your guard down. Then once they get what they originally wanted, they drop you.
Men think they know everything and are experts on how to make a woman happy.
Men are not experts on how to make a woman happy. They don’t know what will make her feel safe, loved and special.
Men are not experts on making women feel like they’re the only woman in the world who matters. That’s why when we tell them something about ourselves that we’re looking for in a man, it tends to backfire because it makes us sound like we don’t need anyone else at all!
Men can be sexist and will judge you if you are too picky in relationships.
Men are more likely to be sexist and judgmental than women, which is why it’s important for you not to tell your man exactly what you’re looking for in a relationship. Men will think that if he doesn’t meet all of the criteria, then he isn’t perfect enough for you. If he does meet all of your requirements and the two of you aren’t compatible on paper (or even more importantly in person), then what kind of message does that send about his worthiness?
You don’t have time for this nonsense!
Men may want to impress you with what they can do, but will not necessarily be interested in meeting your needs.
Men may want to impress you with what they can do. But will not necessarily be interested in meeting your needs.
Men are not interested in meeting your needs. They are interested in meeting their own needs and the needs of the people around them (including themselves). This means that when a man meets another person’s needs. He does so reluctantly and only after considerable effort on his part. In other words: it takes work for him to provide for another person (or himself).
You don’t have to answer all of his questions about why he is not meeting your expectations in order for him to change.
If you are not sure how to answer your man’s questions, and instead tell him what you want. He will feel like a failure. This can make him angry and resentful of the relationship, which will only lead to further frustration on both sides.
On the other hand, if you tell him what you don’t want. And then give him an ultimatum about changing his behavior for the better. You may end up driving him away from wanting anything more than a one-night stand or even friendship with someone who is looking for nothing more than casual sex (and maybe not even that!).
A man will listen if you only give him advice on how he can become a better man by changing his behavior, not by telling him how he needs to change.
You don’t need to tell him everything.
You don’t have to answer all of his questions about why he is not meeting your expectations in order for him to change.
You can give him advice on how to be a better man, but only if he asks for it!
Conclusion
If you think a man is not meeting your expectations, do not hold onto any negative feelings or judgments. Instead, focus on finding ways to improve his behavior. If he continues to make excuses as to why he cannot meet your needs or if he refuses to change, then you should consider ending the relationship.
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