How to know if someone only likes the idea of you

I’m not a great person to ask about dating. I don’t know much about it, and I’ve had my fair share of bad experiences. But that doesn’t mean everyone else is incapable of understanding what’s happening in your love life! You just have to be open with them and let them know exactly how you feel. And if they don’t seem interested in the same things as you. Then maybe they just aren’t right for each other after all! Here’s How to know if someone only likes the idea of you.

They never ask you out.

If a person doesn’t want to be seen as a player, they will likely avoid asking you out. This can be because they’re afraid of being seen as desperate or needy, or even worse, clingy! They might also think that if you say “no,” then it means “yes.” So instead of asking (and possibly ruining the illusion of your dating life), the person would rather just continue making eyes at other girls and hoping for the best.

They don’t want to see you or talk to you outside of work.

If they don’t want to see you outside of work, then they’re not interested in seeing you any time at all. They might even tell their friends and family that they don’t want to hang out with them anymore.

If someone only likes the idea of having a relationship with you, it’s good for them if their coworkers think highly of them too! And if everyone else loves your company. The customers love it (and refer others), other employees like working there, etc. Then maybe this person is just nervous about having an actual relationship with another person (or multiple people).

They never tell you that they like you.

• You’re not being completely clear about how much you like them.
• They don’t want to make you feel uncomfortable, so they don’t tell you.
• It’s too soon for them to make a move. But they still want the opportunity to be with someone else (and they are probably having some fun while they wait).

They ask you how your day was, but not if your dating life is going well.

If a person asks you how your day was, but not if your dating life is going well.

If they ask, “How was your day?” and seem genuinely interested in hearing about all the mundane details of your day. The traffic on the way home from work, the weather report for tomorrow. It’s safe to assume that they’re only interested in hearing how you’re doing as an individual.

Their lack of interest in you stings but they don’t even care.

It’s one thing to know that someone is not interested in you. It’s another thing entirely to have that information confirmed by their lack of interest in you.

If someone says “I’m not interested in dating,” then they must be interested in something else, right? Wrong! This may seem like a challenge on its own, but it gets worse when you consider how much more hurtful it can be if the other person is telling you this after being open about wanting to date them just days before. If they told me this before we ever went out. I would have understood and appreciated their honesty. But when we’ve already had several dates and spent hours together…it stings so much more!

It’s hard to know what someone feels but if they aren’t willing to share it, move on!

It’s hard to know what someone feels but if they aren’t willing to share it, move on!

If your friend or colleague is interested in you, they will eventually tell you. But if they don’t feel the same way and just want a hookup or friendship. There’s no point in wasting time on something that isn’t mutual. Don’t waste your energy on someone who doesn’t want anything more than a hookup with no strings attached. You deserve better!

Conclusion

If you’re still wondering if someone likes you, ask them out! It’s not always easy and it might take some time, but it can be worth it when someone asks you out and says yes. That being said, don’t expect this type of relationship to last foreverr. Because they’re only interested in the idea of dating someone else (not necessarily actually dating). You just need to figure out what their interest is before moving forward with the relationship.

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