When people ask, “Are you a leader or a follower?” they usually expect one confident answer: “I’m a leader.” Society often treats leadership as the gold standard. A sign of strength, independence, and ambition. While labeling followers as passive or unmotivated.
But here’s the truth: the world needs both leaders and followers, and I’m proud to say I’m a little of each.
The Misunderstanding About Followers
Followers often get an unfair reputation. They’re seen as people who can’t think for themselves or need to be told what to do. But in reality, being a follower can mean being a great listener, a supportive team player, and someone who knows when to let another person’s expertise take the lead.
A follower isn’t powerless , they’re essential. Every great leader needs people who can execute a vision, provide feedback, and keep the group moving forward. Without strong followers, leadership is just… talking.
When I’m a Leader
I step into leadership roles when I have a clear vision, experience, or a skill set that’s needed.
I love rallying people around a shared goal, creating a plan, and motivating others to bring their best selves to the table. Whether it’s leading a creative project, mentoring someone, or speaking up for what’s right, leadership is where I get to stretch my voice and use my confidence to help others.
But here’s the thing: leadership isn’t about being in control all the time. It’s about knowing when to take the wheel and when to hand it over.
When I’m a Follower
I become a follower when someone else’s vision or expertise outshines mine, and I’m okay with that. If I see a person’s leadership inspiring the room, I’m happy to support, encourage, and execute their plan.
Being a follower allows me to:
- Learn from others
- Stay humble
- Support the bigger picture without ego getting in the way
- Practice adaptability and teamwork
It’s not about “taking orders,” it’s about contributing where I’m most valuable in that moment.
Why I’m Proud to Be Both
Being only a leader or only a follower limits your growth. Life isn’t about sticking to one role. It’s about reading the room, understanding the situation, and asking, “Where can I make the most impact right now?”
Sometimes you’ll be the person with the map. Sometimes you’ll be the person helping carry the supplies. Both roles get the team to the destination.
The truth is: leadership teaches me to trust my own vision. Following teaches me to trust others. Together, they make me a stronger, wiser, and more adaptable person.
The Takeaway
The next time someone asks if you’re a leader or a follower, don’t feel pressured to pick just one. Being both means you’re versatile, self-aware, and unafraid to do what’s needed for the bigger goal.
And honestly? That’s the kind of person the world needs more of.
With love and light,
Your virtual big sister 💕
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