“Standing alone is better than standing with people who hurt you.” 

Hey Loves, Welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception,

The Narcissist’s Playbook is a long book, not that I am compiling. So, I am continuing on with the posts for you all.

abusive

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Definition of abusive

1a: using harsh, insulting language angry and abusive crowd: harsh and insulting abusive language: using or involving physical violence or emotional cruelty

It happens when someone doesn’t get their way, they’re trying to intimidate their partner, or the other person isn’t acting how the abuser wants.

Their anger in a sort is a way for them to control you. I have been abused, but I did not see it coming because they were charming. That person had charisma about them. Too bad, I didn’t find out, until too late.

Narcissist are like animals

And their victims are their prey. They didn’t to haunt for weak or who they think is weak. It’s like a game for them. “Let me see how far I can push them”. What they do is very damaging.

I do want to let you all know, that withholding information is a form of lying. It’s another way of abusing. Usually those who have dealt with a narcissist end up going to therapy, when originally it should be the narcissist going.

Do you all have an abusive person in your life? Have you seen any red flags? Has someone ever used gaslighting on you? Let me know in the comments below!