The holidays always sneak up on us. One moment it’s October and we’re just pulling out cozy sweaters, and the next it’s December with gift lists, parties, and expenses piling up. The truth is, holiday spending can get overwhelming if you don’t prepare early. That’s why October is the perfect time to start budgeting. Giving yourself months instead of weeks to plan.
Here are a few simple ways to get started:

1. Create a Holiday Spending Plan
Before you start shopping, take a moment to outline how much you want (and can realistically afford) to spend. Think about categories like gifts, food, travel, and decor. Having this framework in place helps you avoid surprises later.


2. Start Saving Small Now
Even setting aside $20–$40 a week between now and December can make a big difference. Small amounts add up quickly when you stay consistent.

3. Shop Early & Shop Smart
Don’t wait until December! October and November sales are your best friend. Shopping early helps spread out expenses and keeps you from overspending in a last-minute rush.


Want More Holiday Budgeting Strategies?
This is just the beginning. In my ebook, I share:
- The exact step-by-step holiday budget worksheet I use
- Creative ways to save money without missing out on traditions
- How to handle family expectations without breaking your wallet
- And bonus tips for starting January without financial regret


If you’re serious about making this your most stress-free holiday season yet, check out my ebook for the full breakdown.
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