Heart vs Head

One day we will learn that the heart can never be totally right if the head is totally wrong. Hey loves, Welcome back! How are you? I just wanted to take moment, So that we all can actually take a moment a acknowledge our emotions. Now that we’ve all cleared our minds and become one with what we are … Read moreHeart vs Head

Have an identity outside of your relationship

“YOUR IDENTITY IS YOUR MOST VALUABLE POSSESSION. PROTECT IT.” – ELASTIGIRL, THE INCREDIBLES Honestly, this is a pet peeve of mine and I think that a lot of people can relate. Have you ever had a friend or someone close to you disappear into space when they get in a relationship. But wait fort, try … Read moreHave an identity outside of your relationship

The Story isn’t over…

Your life is your story. Write well. Edit often. We have now reached the last book of the four that I suggest for you. Obviously this post is coming out kind of late because I am going through something, but I can’t let it affect my life. I hope you all are doing okay. This … Read moreThe Story isn’t over…

Learning to say no…

…recognize what’s important to you and create boundaries without feeling guilty or rude. Hey loves, On this post, I will speak on a topic that I know a lot of people can relate to. So don’t be confuse by the title. This is not a 5th grade lesson on saying no to drugs. This is … Read moreLearning to say no…

You be busy too…Turn your back on indecision

Indecision becomes decision with time. … “Where are you” “Wyd” You tell him none of his concern. See guys love to work on their time. Like the world revolves around them. Like someone is just going to wait for them. See theres this thing about time. Let’s start with the fact that time is the only … Read moreYou be busy too…Turn your back on indecision

Christmas Gift ideas for everyone

Hey whats up guys! Welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception. As we know, it is the holiday time and many are panicking as they shop for that perfect gift for everyone.  Black Friday is a hectic time. While the holidays are not about gifts, if you’re anything like me, you love getting presents for … Read moreChristmas Gift ideas for everyone

Why you shouldn’t “fix a man”….

Learn from my mistakes. Stop helping boys and help yourself. The right man will understand.

Looking Back at 2018: Lessons in Growth, Self-Reflection, and Knowing Your Worth

Hey loves, and welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception  We all wish we could go back and warn our past selves before the heartbreak, the mistakes, or the losses. While I don’t know everything, I have been through a lot and if sharing my lessons can help even one person grow, heal, or avoid unnecessary pain, then … Read moreLooking Back at 2018: Lessons in Growth, Self-Reflection, and Knowing Your Worth

5 lessons for the college girl

“Remember that life’s greatest lessons are learned at the worst times from the worst mistakes” There is always your typical advice people give you when entering college. Especially for women. “You will find your soulmate in college” or “Dating will be fun”. I have never been so disappointed in my life. Boy have those expectations … Read more5 lessons for the college girl