Why you should make a mood board…

Minimalism is an appreciation of space Hey loves welcome back! To those that celebrate, Lent has begun! Continuing with the theme of new beginnings and change, I thought I’d put y’all on to mood boards. You’re probably wondering, what the heck is a mood board. Well let me explain. mood board noun 1.an arrangement of … Read moreWhy you should make a mood board…

Spring Cleaning my Life

Spring is the time of Plans and Projects. -Leo Tolstoy Hey loves welcome back! So, recently, I’ve been going through a lot of things that have caused me to take a fresh look at my life, and I’ve realized that I’m outgrowing a lot of people and things. I’ve done my fair share of drinking … Read moreSpring Cleaning my Life

You be busy too…Turn your back on indecision

Indecision becomes decision with time. … “Where are you” “Wyd” You tell him none of his concern. See guys love to work on their time. Like the world revolves around them. Like someone is just going to wait for them. See theres this thing about time. Let’s start with the fact that time is the only … Read moreYou be busy too…Turn your back on indecision

Top 10 Holiday Peeves

“MAYBE CHRISTMAS, HE THOUGHT, DOESN’T COME FROM A STORE. MAYBE CHRISTMAS PERHAPS MEANS A LITTLE BIT MORE.” – DR. SEUSS, THE GRINCH Welcome back guys! So being that it is holiday season. The theme of most of my posts for this month are going to have something to do with the holidays. My thoughts during … Read moreTop 10 Holiday Peeves

The 55-38-7 Myth

“WHO YOU ARE IS SPEAKING SO LOUDLY THAT I CAN’T HEAR WHAT YOU’RE SAYING” ~ RALPH WALDO EMERSON Hey loves, welcome back! So, this post is going to be about a topic, I know everyone would be interested in and I’ve been dealing with situations that have a lot to do with it. So apparently, how … Read moreThe 55-38-7 Myth

10 relatable quotes from Daria

Hey loves, One show that many don’t talk about, is the 90s show Daria. She is witty, sarcastic, and realistic.  Things myself and most people can relate to. Now this show has underlying messages it tries to send in creative ways. The show is defiantly recommended. In this blog I will give a few quotes … Read more10 relatable quotes from Daria

Why you shouldn’t “fix a man”….

Learn from my mistakes. Stop helping boys and help yourself. The right man will understand.

10 Questions you need to be asking when SERIOUSLY dating.

“STAY SINGLE UNTIL SOMEONE ACTUALLY COMPLIMENTS YOUR LIFE IN A WAY THAT MAKES IT BETTER TO NOT BE SINGLE. IF NOT IT’S NOT WORTH IT. “ Hey loves welcome back, Now you may think you know the questions off the bat “do you have goals” or “Turn on and turn-offs” but that is just small … Read more10 Questions you need to be asking when SERIOUSLY dating.

Right Person, Wrong time? Is this real?

Learn from my experience and pay attention to those who are meant to be in your life.

My thoughts on what Jermaine Dupri Said…

 

Above is the video of Jermaine Dupri, a respected  producer and songwriter, sharing his opinion on women in the rap game. Watch the video before you continue reading one.

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So after watching this interview, first of all the people who interviewed him asked him specifically what he thought of the WOMEN in the rap game, so he answered that question. And honestly I do have to agree with him. I have always thought that the women of today’s rap game only rap about sex or dancing or things of that sort. And I’m not going to lie, the man of the rap game do too, but that wasn’t the topic of discussion.

So there’s no need to be upset. And I am an advocate for women I am feminist to the day I die. But it seems like the rap game has fallen off. Back then people listen to rap for the lyrics and the beat. Today you can say a bunch of gibberish on a dope beat and become successful. Not gonna lie, some of those songs are catchy and I catch myself dancing to them but that’s just it…this song is just for dancing. What gets me to respect a rapper is their lyrics. The story that they try to tell through the lyrics.  Which is why one of the lyricist is Tupac Shakur.

Many female rappers have responded to what was said in the interview and you can agree with what some of them are saying. Some were  saying that sex sales, which is very true especially in the entertainment business. However, if you truly enjoy rapping, you’re mainly focused on getting your art out instead of making sales. You let your art do the talking. There was one person, who shared their opinion and named artists who don’t use sex to sell and it’s not a coincidence that most of them are dark skin. Which brings up the topic of discussion of colorism, but that’s for a different conversation. Because people refuse to see how big of a role that plays in every day life.

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The rappers who are still talked about today and those who are named when people are asked who influenced them, remain relevant for a reason. Do you know how talented you have/had to be to remain relevant and respected years later? Do you think the artists today are going to have the impact? Or will it still be those before them? I’m just saying, the rappers from back then had range and brought awareness with their lyrics. And yes I’m speaking about women, because that is what the question was originally about. Queen Latifah, MC Lyte, Lauryn Hill … and so on. Even little Kim wrote verses that spoke on real stuff. Go listen to the song “Can’t hold us down” by Christina ft. Lil Kim. I want rappers who are the voice for the voiceless.

Now I’m not trying to knock anyones hustle/craft. I just believe the rap game has changed and hope that one day it gets back to hardcore lyrics and lyrics that are saying something. I want those with talent to start getting the shine it absolutely deserves. BRING TALENT BACK BECAUSE WHAT WE HAVE NOW IS BORING. I said what I said.

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