The author reflects on their chaotic life as a millennial born in 1995, shaped by significant global events like 9/11, wars, economic crises, school shootings, and climate change. Despite facing constant turmoil and the pressure of social media, they find hope and resilience in small joys and meaningful connections amidst the chaos.
The author reflects on the profound realization that worth is inherent and not dependent on external validation. For years, they believed their value stemmed from achievements and roles in relationships. Ultimately, they learned that true acceptance comes from being oneself, rather than seeking approval from those who only value what one can offer.
Window, mirror, and door love theory If you’re a fan of romance, you’ve probably heard of the “window, mirror, and door” love theory. The idea is that there are three types of love: the kind that’s reflected back at you (mirrors), openness to others (windows), and exploration (doors). You can tell what type of person … Read moreWindow, Mirror, and Door Love Theory
Dear younger self, You’re in high school, and you’re feeling like a failure. So this is my Dear younger self, written just for you. You’ve been struggling through classes, and the only way you know how to deal with that is by keeping yourself busy all the time. You’re not sure what you want to … Read moreIf I Could Write a Letter to my Younger Self
The journey is never ending. There’s always gonna be growth, improvement, adversity; you just gotta take it all in and do what’s right, continue to grow, continue to live in the moment. Hey loves! What’s up! The end of the year is just around the corner and the new year is fast approaching. At this time … Read more3 Ways I Grew as a Person in 2021
Favorite Place I visited this year: I go every year, but I always get excited to go horseback riding. Hey loves, I wanted to do some reflecting, because things have been hectic for everyone this year. Personally, I think this has been the year of lessons. I have a completely new perspective on things and … Read moreReviewing My Year
Hey loves, and welcome back to Joi’s Journey of Perception We all wish we could go back and warn our past selves before the heartbreak, the mistakes, or the losses. While I don’t know everything, I have been through a lot and if sharing my lessons can help even one person grow, heal, or avoid unnecessary pain, then … Read moreLooking Back at 2018: Lessons in Growth, Self-Reflection, and Knowing Your Worth
