What’s a One-sided friendship and why are they bad

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What’s a One-sided friendship and why are they bad So, you’ve been wondering what a one-sided friendship is. Well, it’s pretty simple. A one-sided friendship is when you only give and never get anything in return from your friend or friends. If you’re like me, you might have asked yourself “Why are these friendships bad?” … Read moreWhat’s a One-sided friendship and why are they bad

Is the saying “you are who you hang with” true?

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“you are who you hang with” Is the saying “you are who you hang with” true? Have you heard the saying “you are who you hang with”? If not, then you’re lucky! But if you have, then maybe it’s time to question this old adage. The saying may be true in some cases but not … Read moreIs the saying “you are who you hang with” true?

The Power of a Trauma bond

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Trauma Bond The power of a trauma bond can be strong and it is important to be aware of it. If you have been in an abusive relationship, you may have formed a trauma bond that has impacted your life. A trauma bond is an intense attachment that is formed after repeated cycles of abuse … Read moreThe Power of a Trauma bond

Let’s Talk about Jealousy vs Envy

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Jealousy vs Envy Let’s talk about it! (Jealousy vs Envy) Jealousy and envy are two emotions that may seem similar at first glance, but in reality, have very different roots. Envy is a quieter, more insidious feeling of resentment towards someone who has something you want. Usually an object or material possession. Jealousy is a … Read moreLet’s Talk about Jealousy vs Envy

Not everyone is your friend

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Friends: How Many of us Have Them You’ve got a great group of friends. They’re supportive, fun to be around, and you get along well with them. But then there’s one person who seems to want nothing more than to ruin your day—and not just any person: your best friend! Now she’s making snide comments … Read moreNot everyone is your friend

How to Make Friends in Your Twenties

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How to make friends in your twenties It’s not easy to make friends in your twenties. You’re busy, you’ve got things to do, and you don’t have the time or energy for meaningless obligations. When it comes down to it though, making friends is one of the most rewarding experiences out there. It can be … Read moreHow to Make Friends in Your Twenties

Does Closure Really Help You to Move On?

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Introduction to Closure I have been on both ends of the “closure” spectrum. In my personal experience, I have found that closure has not helped me to move on. Instead, the closure has only reaffirmed my feelings and opened up a new world of questions and possibilities. Case in point, I recently had closure with … Read moreDoes Closure Really Help You to Move On?

Can Men and Women be Platonic Friends

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Introduction to friends Most people assume that their closest friends and social circle are all of the same genders. People frequently express the opinion that women and men cannot just be friends without feeling romantically drawn to one another. I’ve previously discussed this subject, but the argument has come up again. This is because a … Read moreCan Men and Women be Platonic Friends

Red Flags to Look Out for in Friendships

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Introduction The friendships you have with others are important to your happiness, and that’s why it’s critical to look for warning signs in your relationships. Friendships should be enriching experiences, but if you find yourself feeling drained after spending time with someone, that’s a red flag. It may also be a sign that this relationship … Read moreRed Flags to Look Out for in Friendships

The Evil Eye

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Hey loves and Welcome Back to Joi’s Journey of Perception Have you ever been taken aback by someone who you thought was your friend? Like the ending of the friendship caught you by surprise? I’ve had that happen by people who I thought were genuinely my friend. I was watching a TikTok and it brought … Read moreThe Evil Eye