The Arrival Fallacy: Why Reaching Your Goals Isn’t the End of the Road

The arrival fallacy suggests that achieving specific goals won’t necessarily lead to lasting happiness or fulfillment. Instead, it may result in fleeting satisfaction and new desires. To counteract this, one should focus on appreciating the journey, practicing mindfulness, and celebrating small achievements, ultimately redefining happiness as an ongoing process rather than a final destination.

Relationship Expectations are Not One Size Fits All

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Relatioship Expectations When it comes to relationships, I have a lot of expectations. Some are very specific, while others stem from my experiences with other people in my life. No matter what your expectations are, they’re not always going to be met by the person you’re with or vice versa. And even if they are, … Read moreRelationship Expectations are Not One Size Fits All