Excerpt From: Thought Catalog. “The Art Of Letting Go.” Apple Books. https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-art-of-letting-go/id1088918035
You Are Not Everyone’s Cup Of Tea
Hey my loves, Welcome!
How is everyone. I am super excited that the weather is getting warmer and that the sun is staying out longer. Better weather always tends to put people in a better mood.
I wanted to make a post on the next chapter. For those of you who are new, Check out the post before.
Thoughts to keep on mind.
As kids:
Most of us desperatly wanted to fit in when we were born to stand out. You must remember these words from this chapter.
“There are poems within you that people will not be able to handle, storms surging through your bones that young men and women will never be able to weather.”
Excerpt From: Thought Catalog. “The Art Of Letting Go.” Apple Books. https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-art-of-letting-go/id1088918035
What I understood:
The beginning of this chapter is trying to explain that some people will not take time to learn you below the surface. For them it is too much work and you have to accept that. From my experience, I’ve had a lot of guys who like the idea of me or just wanted me to be their trophy. I stopped speaking to them. Later they find out that my personality is just as beautiful as my looks and they always regret it.
Some people also wear a mask when you meet them and that’s who you fall for. you fall for their potential. This sucks because all you wanted was that person to be themselves.
Not letting the world condemn you
Learning to let go of the things not meant for you…
I know we all struggle with this. You hold on to the things that you truly care about and a lot of the time it does not work out because it’s either not meant for you or it’s not the right time. Sometimes being with someone is like a drug and it’s very clear that drug addictions hard to break. That’s why breakups are hard for most.
For my religious people, we have to keep this in mind.
“We lose things all the time – “the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away,” as Job warned us in the Old Testament.”
Excerpt From: Thought Catalog. “The Art Of Letting Go.” Apple Books. https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-art-of-letting-go/id1088918035
I have to trust that things are already planned and losing someone or things are apart of the plan.
Testimonial
There are times where I do not get an answer of why I lost some things and to this day I still wonder. I guess I will not know until I am meant to.
“If you don’t trust anything or anyone in life, trust that the things you leave behind allow you to make room for the unexpected. ”
Excerpt From: Thought Catalog. “The Art Of Letting Go.” Apple Books. https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-art-of-letting-go/id1088918035
I am very hard on myself and I use to feel forced to stay at a job but now I understand why I was pushed to leave.
Friendships are like plants. Yea I know, typical cliche, but they are. There have been friendships that I was the only one watering. Now I know why I had to let them go.
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