Forgiveness doesn’t Mean Forgotten

JUST BECAUSE I’VE FORGIVEN YOU DOESN’T MEAN WE NEED TO REKINDLE WHAT WE HAD. I’M NO LONGER REBUILDING FRIENDSHIPS. I’VE FOUND MY PEACE AND YOU MAY STILL BE TOXIC. HAVE YOU GROWN DURING THIS “NO COMMUNICATION” PHASE OR ARE YOU STAGNANT? THE NO COMMUNICATION WAS FOR THE BOTH OF US. YOU SEE SOME PEOPLE EXPECT THINGS TO GO BACK TO THE WAY THEY WERE (TOXIC) ONCE THEY COME BACK FROM BEING GHOST.

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THAT TIME IS NECESSARY FOR THE BOTH OF US. LET PEOPLE USE THEIR TIME TO HEAL. I’M TRYING TO HEAD TO ABUNDANCE. PEOPLE LOVE TAKING AND TAKING FROM ME THEN ONCE THEY HAVE WHAT THEY WANT, THEY LEAVE. HOW IS THAT FAIR? I’VE FORGIVEN YOU AND MADE SURE MY KARMA WAS CLEARED. THERE’S NO BEEF, HOWEVER, ITS BEST WE DON’T SPEAK AGIAN UNLESS ITS A HI OR BYE.. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO DID ME SO DIRTY AND I FORGAVE THEM.

IN WHICH THEY THOUGHT THEY GOT AWAY WITH WHAT TTHEY DID WHEN IN REALITY, I FORGAVE THEM FOR ME. SO THAT I COULD MOVE ON WITHOUT MY PAST HAVING A ROLE INTO WHAT’S AHEAD FOR ME IN MY FUTURE. THERE ARE MOMENTS YOU JUST DON’T WANT TO GIVE. YOU JUST WANT TO BE SELFISH AND THAT’S OKAY. AS MUCH AS YOU MAY MISS THOSE PEOPLE WHO HURT OR BETRAYED YOU. IT’S BEST YOU NOT LET THEM BACK IN. YOU SHOULDN’T BECAUSE YOU ARE TEACHING THEM THAT IT IS OKAY HOW THEY TREATED YOU.

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PEOPLE TEND TO THINK HOW THEY TREATED YOU IS OKAY UNTIL YOU EITHER TREAT THEM THE SAME OR CUT THEM OFF. I’M WORKING ON RELEASING PEOPLE INSTEAD OF GIVING THEM A TASTE OF THEIR OWN MEDICINE. MY EXPERIENCES MADE ME DO ALOT OF THINKING, I’VE LEARNED ALOT ABOUT BEHAVIOR; OTHERS AND MY OWN. SO MUCH GROWTH.

 

 

 

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